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Why Good Churches Still Produce Spiritually Stalled Christians
The Three Mistakes That Keep Believers From Maturity
Read it. Preach it. Take your team through it.
An honest look at why sincere churches can unintentionally create believers who remain spiritually stuck.
- 9 chapters
- 67-page PDF
- About 50 minutes to read
By Kraig Kleeman, founder of The Zoé Life
The Core Premise
Spiritual maturity is not primarily measured by activity. It is measured by transformation.
Why This Matters
Sincere churches can teach about God more than they help people walk with Him. This book names three mistakes that stall believers and introduces the Zoé Formation Cycle for producing mature disciples.
What You'll Discover
- The difference between activity and maturity
- Why many believers plateau spiritually
- The three mistakes that keep believers from maturity
- The Zoé Formation Cycle, stage by stage
- How churches create mature believers
From the Book
Activity fills a calendar. Formation reshapes a soul.
The goal of discipleship is friendship with God.
The hidden seasons were not interruptions to their formation. They were the formation.
Preaching & Teaching Kit
Free during previewA sermon series that brands itself for your church
Upload your church logo and "From Activity to Friendship" rebuilds itself in your colors: the guide, the slides and every handout, in seconds. No designer, no reformatting. Add it for $39 and take the book from your study to your pulpit, your leaders and your small groups.
- Auto-branded: upload your logo and every piece takes on your church's colors
- 5-week preaching guide, with one-message and class versions
- 73-slide series deck, with your logo on the title slide
- 3 team handouts, ready to print in your colors
- Free team link for your staff and group leaders
- The whole kit as one ZIP download
- Week 1Busy Is Not the Same as Growing
- Week 2Friends, Not Just Students
- Week 3Formation, Not Just Activity
- Week 4How God Forms His People
- Week 5A Church That Forms Friends of God
Try your church colors
Pick a pair, or your own main color. The slides on this page recolor right away.
In the kit, you upload your logo and we pull your real colors for the slides, guide and handouts. See how it works
The slides
Four of the 73 slides in the deck, from Week 1. Pick a color above and they change with it.
Title slide. Your church logo sits in the corner.
Week opener, with the sermon title and Scripture.
Key line, the book's own words, quoted exactly.
Small-group questions to close the week.
Every handout, ready to print
Real first pages from the kit. One for the preacher, two for your leaders, one for everyone.
For the preacherPreaching guide: Preaching & Teaching GuideA five-week sermon series from the book plus series slides, with a one-message version and a class version.
For your leadership teamTeam Discussion GuideQuestions for each of the three Parts and the conclusion, for staff and leadership teams reading the book together.
For your leadership teamThe Three Mistakes ReviewThe book's six Reader Reflection questions on one sheet, for leaders to answer about their own church.
For your congregation and groupsWhere Am I in the Cycle?A one-page sheet from Chapter 8 for everyone: the six stages of the Zoé Formation Cycle and a week of evening check-ins.
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